It so happens that due to the pressure by society or peer group or parents we don't always get to do things our way. If we love doing the thing they are against it so much that we can go against it and do it, I think we really should.
You should always trust your instincts and persuade the dreams you've been having since a long time. Believe that you can achieve all that you dream off. It's a good thing to dream and follow it. It is said that when we are little we know distinctly what we want to be in life. But, as we grow older our pragmatic self doesn't allow us to look at life with the same zestfulness we had years ago. We stop following what we believe in because of many people who come along and because of the circumstances. It's worthwhile to trust your gut feeling and being passionate about your beliefs.
I have always believed in the values imparted by my parents. But, once we grow up, we start reiterating on the morals and values according to the current scenario. One thing we must always remember is that only YOU are responsible for the decisions you've taken and all the results thereon. Blaming anybody else for any situation will be very wrong.
How do you do it?
1) To achieve big, love yourself
It is crucial. Understand nobody is perfect. We must work hard towards it. There is no easy way out than to accepting the fact that you are what you are. Love yourself for being imperfect and be thankful for what you have. There is always room for improvement.
2) Forgive, don't forget
We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself for doing so. Only if you commit mistakes, you will learn. Mistakes help you learn a lot of important life lessons. Be proactive and correct the mistakes. Make sure you don't repeat them in future, that's why don't FORGET.
3) Make realistic goals
Don't plan on something that can't be done overnight. Plan for achieving a short term goal first. Give yourself credits and reward for successful completion. Go out and shop for the dress you've always wanted. Go to the club you've always wanted. Splurge in for yourself. Indulge in spending some lone time.
4) Retrospect the plan
After the short term goals have been achieved focus on the long term goals now. Remember you have to take baby steps. Don't rush. Only if you endure deep pain now, you'll be able to succeed in future. Don't fret if you don't meet your expectation.
5) Take a break
Taking a break to cool off is really important. Go out on the trip you've always wanted to go. Go to the music concert. Have a get together with high school friends and catch up with them.
You'll gain perspective and a little inspiration.
6) Follow up the plan
Keep working toward your ultimate dream. Don't loose hope. Keep yourself motivated. Thinking about the happiness you get after achieving the end result will keep you going.
7) Don't let people change who you are
People may try to belittle you or laugh about your dream. Expect people to laugh at you so that you won't be surprised when they do. Trust me, initially you may sound ridiculous to them. But, like I said you have the right to decide on what you've to do.
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. NOBODY ELSE IS.
You are just as worthy as anybody else. You have a great potential in you. Trust yourself. Stop loathing yourself. Accept who you are. Nobody else can make you happy. Wake up everyday thinking about positive thing about yourself.
Be happy. :) All the best!! :)
You should always trust your instincts and persuade the dreams you've been having since a long time. Believe that you can achieve all that you dream off. It's a good thing to dream and follow it. It is said that when we are little we know distinctly what we want to be in life. But, as we grow older our pragmatic self doesn't allow us to look at life with the same zestfulness we had years ago. We stop following what we believe in because of many people who come along and because of the circumstances. It's worthwhile to trust your gut feeling and being passionate about your beliefs.
How do you do it?
1) To achieve big, love yourself
It is crucial. Understand nobody is perfect. We must work hard towards it. There is no easy way out than to accepting the fact that you are what you are. Love yourself for being imperfect and be thankful for what you have. There is always room for improvement.
2) Forgive, don't forget
We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself for doing so. Only if you commit mistakes, you will learn. Mistakes help you learn a lot of important life lessons. Be proactive and correct the mistakes. Make sure you don't repeat them in future, that's why don't FORGET.
3) Make realistic goals
Don't plan on something that can't be done overnight. Plan for achieving a short term goal first. Give yourself credits and reward for successful completion. Go out and shop for the dress you've always wanted. Go to the club you've always wanted. Splurge in for yourself. Indulge in spending some lone time.
4) Retrospect the plan
After the short term goals have been achieved focus on the long term goals now. Remember you have to take baby steps. Don't rush. Only if you endure deep pain now, you'll be able to succeed in future. Don't fret if you don't meet your expectation.
5) Take a break
Taking a break to cool off is really important. Go out on the trip you've always wanted to go. Go to the music concert. Have a get together with high school friends and catch up with them.
You'll gain perspective and a little inspiration.
6) Follow up the plan
Keep working toward your ultimate dream. Don't loose hope. Keep yourself motivated. Thinking about the happiness you get after achieving the end result will keep you going.
7) Don't let people change who you are
People may try to belittle you or laugh about your dream. Expect people to laugh at you so that you won't be surprised when they do. Trust me, initially you may sound ridiculous to them. But, like I said you have the right to decide on what you've to do.
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. NOBODY ELSE IS.
You are just as worthy as anybody else. You have a great potential in you. Trust yourself. Stop loathing yourself. Accept who you are. Nobody else can make you happy. Wake up everyday thinking about positive thing about yourself.
Be happy. :) All the best!! :)
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