We all wish to live in perfect harmony with each other. How we wish we would like to be friends with everyone. But, are our lives completely satisfactory?
Do we really trust the people who are around us? Do they trust us as much as we do? Seldom ever!
I've had friends whom I thought were close to me. A turn of events just helped me to get an insight about me and I realized they've been badmouthing about me all the time. You trust people and they give you reasons exactly why not to trust you. You believe them and they break your heart without fail every single time. They don't understand the feeling you have for them.
No matter how you treat them, they always find ways to find fault in you and call you selfish, just because you are ambitious and are focused, They are going to talk behind your back anyway so don't fret about what they say behind your back. As long as your family trusts you and supports you, its all good.
We feel the need to share our feeling with someone and that is right, because you need to open up your feelings about everyone to that someone. That person need not be your friends,it can be your sibling or parents. Someone who will never judge you no matter what.
So how do you deal with all the back-bitching?
1. Ignore all their opinions about you.
2. Stop worrying about what-if's.
3. Invest time in improving life- indulge in some creative activity that will help you in your career or pursue a hobby.
4. You are the person who knows yourself more than anyone else. So don't be bothered about the comments others have to make.
5. Do SWOT- Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats ANALYSIS. Work on your weaknesses.
6. Remember: We are not here to please everyone and that is almost impossible to do so, If we start pleasing everyone, we would loose out on our originality. So we better stay ourselves and be original. ;)
Do we really trust the people who are around us? Do they trust us as much as we do? Seldom ever!
I've had friends whom I thought were close to me. A turn of events just helped me to get an insight about me and I realized they've been badmouthing about me all the time. You trust people and they give you reasons exactly why not to trust you. You believe them and they break your heart without fail every single time. They don't understand the feeling you have for them.
No matter how you treat them, they always find ways to find fault in you and call you selfish, just because you are ambitious and are focused, They are going to talk behind your back anyway so don't fret about what they say behind your back. As long as your family trusts you and supports you, its all good.
We feel the need to share our feeling with someone and that is right, because you need to open up your feelings about everyone to that someone. That person need not be your friends,it can be your sibling or parents. Someone who will never judge you no matter what.
So how do you deal with all the back-bitching?
1. Ignore all their opinions about you.
2. Stop worrying about what-if's.
3. Invest time in improving life- indulge in some creative activity that will help you in your career or pursue a hobby.
4. You are the person who knows yourself more than anyone else. So don't be bothered about the comments others have to make.
5. Do SWOT- Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats ANALYSIS. Work on your weaknesses.
6. Remember: We are not here to please everyone and that is almost impossible to do so, If we start pleasing everyone, we would loose out on our originality. So we better stay ourselves and be original. ;)
