The People Around Us!!!

Human beings are social animals. We can't live all by ourselves. We need to get along with people around us to grow in our life. We meet a lot of people everyday. It has become important to get along with friends to lead a great life.

Do we really care about how everybody lives? We are all self-centric. We wish to grow constantly. It has become part of lives to compete with each other and succeed. It has also been proven that the fittest survives.

But how do we compete? We fight amongst ourselves. We have our peers and we indulge in competing with them. Let us consider studies, its natural one is going to get marks based on his performance alone and not based on his preparation. No matter how much effort we put in to learning the lessons and working out the worksheets all that matters is the performance in the answer script. We are always judged constantly. People never stop judging us. We are under constant watch.

Many of us may feel that appearance matters a lot more than our skills and talents. Its natural for one to feel pressurized by the society and do things which we never thought we would have done. We feel insecure all the time. Whether its success or failure. We tend to worry too much about future or ponder over the past and wonder what if this had happened or what if I had done this earlier and that my life would have been better. Its high time we understand we cant go back and rectify our past mistakes. All we can do is learn from them and accept and forgive ourselves that we're just human beings and its very natural for us to commit mistakes.

It is rightly said, "to err is human; to forgive is divine." We must start loving ourselves. We always look out for the person who completes us. But, the truth is that we are the ones who can help us keep going. We must understand ourselves better than anyone else and know what we want in life to put the best you in the society. We must love ourselves for whom we are today and thank all the difficulties that came our way. Its only because of the difficulties that we faced earlier we have made it here.

Its said in bhagavad gita that only if we love a particular person, problem arises as you start feeling insecure and needy. Instead love everyone. Love your enemies too. The best thing to do to your enemies is to push yourself farther in life and make them wonder how the hell did he/she come this far? :O Prove to the world your worthiness. Prove it to all those people who said or believed you cannot and that you can do better than anyone. Set realistic goals for yourself and push yourself and keep yourself motivated so as to achieve the goals.Remember only if you are happy you can find happiness around you. No matter how rude or mean the people around you may be trust that there is a supreme power guiding you to the right path and do what you have to. People yap all the time and do not bother to spread false rumors about us. Its up to us i.e., how we handle the situation tactfully.  People are just two-faced nowadays. They behave sweet in front of you and the moment you turn your back to them they speak all rubbish about you. They even try convincing others not to be friends with you. All I can say is that don't let yourself get distracted by all these things. People are meant to cross your path for a reason. If they're hurting you, try to learn why that is happening and means & measures to correct them. Make sure you learn in every opportunity you are given. No matter what happens don't let yourself give up on your goals!! Set goals and work towards it!!

 ALL THE BEST!! :)

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